7 strokes 'unique' to buy toys for Xiong Haizi, industry news-SKP company
In life, parents will definitely take their children out to play, and many bear children will clamor for toys. Today, I want this mother to buy it for him. Next time I want that again. If I don't buy it for him, Xiong Haizi will roll on the ground. Is there such an experience? Is there any trouble? I don't know how to do it? SKP company Amusement Today introduces Taiwan's famous scholar Zeng Shiqiang's suggestion: before going out, my mother will ask him: 'Today we will see a lot of toys when we go out to play. Do you want to buy them? 'He must have said that he wanted. Asked how many he wanted to buy, of course he said he wanted to buy a lot. At this time, I will say to him: 'Then you go out to play, my mother is not enough money, there is no way to buy so much. 'So he knows that he doesn't want to buy as much as he wants. Mother asked him how many he wanted, and he said three. My mother told him, 'You can't play with the three bought back for a while. Let's give the other two to the children next door to play, OK? 'He must say no. Ask him to buy a few at this time, he will say that as long as one. After the choice, the mother also teaches the child how to choose: 'When you see a lot of toys in the toy store, I will teach you how to choose, which other children will not. 'Hearing the mother say this, the child will be very happy, willing to listen to the mother and continue to say. 'You look at it first and see which one you like. It doesn't matter if you like five or ten. The second time, look at which one you want in these favorites and choose three. Look again, choose a favorite, you can buy it. 'This method is effective, the child not only does not cry, but also happily accepts the parents' request. Nowadays, many parents do not teach their children at all. Instead, they give their children a lot of temptation. In this way, the children themselves cannot control themselves and cannot make reasonable choices. Where is Mr. Zeng Shiqiang's suggestion? Nine Types of show to sum up: 1, the first is to love children. However, the word 'love' needs to be distinguished deeply, and if it is not good, love will become harm: 2. Love has a stand and a direction, that is, to help children grow and mature; 3, love, and there are rules, that is, in the premise of position, direction, principle, take the initiative to establish rules; 4. Love is also strategic. Parents and friends should learn to communicate actively and skillfully. 5. The key to effective communication is to let the child feel that you are standing on her position and angle and thinking about him and her. 6. Parents should not play the role of the master. Approval and veto are both masters, neither friends nor growing partners. 7. Last reminder: first, let the child feel it, not realize it. If you can't know first, the order will be reversed. Reasonable, the real meaning of this idiom is to say, first understand the situation and then reason, if the situation is not common, it is difficult to achieve. On this point, it is recommended that you read an article 'The Secret of escaping from Tehran' shared by SKP company six months ago.
